10 Examples of Good Friendships In The Bible
Jesus’ disciples were not just followers—they were His friends, chosen […]
Jesus’ disciples were not just followers—they were His friends, chosen to walk with Him and help carry out His mission. While He showed love to all, He was intentional about His closest relationships, selecting those who would support His purpose.
Even Judas, who ultimately betrayed Him, was part of God’s divine plan. Jesus’ example teaches that friendships should align with God’s will, encouraging growth, accountability, and faithfulness. As John 15:15 reminds us, “I no longer call you servants…I have called you friends.” We, too, are called to be friends, sharing in God’s mission and purpose through our relationships.
What are examples of good friendships in the Bible?
1. Jonathan and David: Scriptural Reference: 1 Samuel 18:1-4
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- Compatibility: Jonathan and David’s souls were knit together, indicating a deep bond.
- Respect: Jonathan respected David’s anointing, even though it meant he wouldn’t be the next king.
- Pride: They were equals, supporting each other without placing using their roles to show superiority.
- No Competition or Jealousy: Despite Jonathan being the natural heir to Saul’s throne and God’s indication that David would be king, there was no sense of rivalry or jealousy between them. Their friendship was built on mutual trust and support.
2. Naomi and Ruth: Scriptural Reference: Ruth 1:16-17
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- Empathy: Ruth’s loyalty and empathy towards Naomi are evident in her famous declaration, “Where you go, I will go.”
- Dependability and Loyalty: Ruth’s commitment and loyalty to Naomi are unwavering.
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3. Jesus and Peter: Scriptural Reference: John 21:15-17
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- Teachability: Peter’s interactions with Jesus demonstrate a willingness to learn and grow, despite making mistakes.
- Supportive: Jesus supports and reinstates Peter after his denial, showing forgiveness and encouragement.
- Accountability: Jesus also rebuked Peter when necessary, as seen in Matthew 16:23, where He says, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.” In this moment, Jesus corrected Peter, helping him grow through both support and rebuke, sharpening him like iron sharpening iron (Proverbs 27:17).
4. Paul and Timothy: Scriptural Reference: Philippians 2:19-22
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- Equally Yoked: Paul and Timothy share a commitment to the Gospel and serving Christ.
- Commitment to Spiritual Growth: Paul guides and encourages Timothy in his faith journey.
5. Daniels, Meshach, Shadrach, Abednego: Scriptural Reference: Daniel 3:16-18
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- Truthfulness: These friends stood for their beliefs, even in the face of adversity, refusing to compromise their faith.
- Supportive: They supported one another in remaining faithful to God, even in challenging circumstances.
6. Jesus and Thomas: Scriptural Reference: John 20:24-29
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- Teachability: Thomas demonstrated a willingness to learn and grow when he doubted Jesus’ resurrection but later acknowledged Him as Lord.
- Empathy: Jesus responded to Thomas with understanding and empathy, addressing his doubts with patience.
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7. Jesus and Matthew: Scriptural Reference: Matthew 9:9-13
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- Supportive: Jesus demonstrated support by calling Matthew, a tax collector, to be one of His disciples, accepting him despite societal norms.
- Truthfulness: Jesus’s acceptance of Matthew reflects His commitment to truthfulness and breaking societal stereotypes.
8. Paul and Barnabas: Scriptural Reference: Acts 15:36-41
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- Disagreement and Separation: Paul and Barnabas, who had been fellow missionaries and close friends, experienced a sharp disagreement regarding whether to take John Mark on their second missionary journey. The dispute was significant enough that they chose to part ways, with Paul taking Silas and Barnabas taking John Mark.
- Conflict Resolution: While the separation may be viewed as a negative aspect, it’s essential to note that disagreements and conflicts can arise even among faithful friends. However, the Bible also emphasizes the importance of resolving conflicts in a manner that allows for continued service in God’s kingdom.
